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الممتحنة Al-Mumtahanah

She that is to be examined 13 verses · Madinah

Topics 2
  1. Friendship with Enemies
  2. Muslim Women Refugees

بِسْمِ ٱللَّهِ ٱلرَّحْمَٰنِ ٱلرَّحِيمِ

Friendship with Enemies

60:1

يَٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلَّذِينَ ءَامَنُوا۟ لَا تَتَّخِذُوا۟ عَدُوِّى وَعَدُوَّكُمْ أَوْلِيَآءَ تُلْقُونَ إِلَيْهِم بِٱلْمَوَدَّةِ وَقَدْ كَفَرُوا۟ بِمَا جَآءَكُم مِّنَ ٱلْحَقِّ يُخْرِجُونَ ٱلرَّسُولَ وَإِيَّاكُمْ ۙ أَن تُؤْمِنُوا۟ بِٱللَّهِ رَبِّكُمْ إِن كُنتُمْ خَرَجْتُمْ جِهَٰدًۭا فِى سَبِيلِى وَٱبْتِغَآءَ مَرْضَاتِى ۚ تُسِرُّونَ إِلَيْهِم بِٱلْمَوَدَّةِ وَأَنَا۠ أَعْلَمُ بِمَآ أَخْفَيْتُمْ وَمَآ أَعْلَنتُمْ ۚ وَمَن يَفْعَلْهُ مِنكُمْ فَقَدْ ضَلَّ سَوَآءَ ٱلسَّبِيلِ ۝١

O you who believe! Do not take My enemy and your enemy for friends –expressing love for them, while they certainly disbelieved in the truth that has come to you, and they expelled the Messenger and you from Mecca because you believe in Allāh, your Lord– especially if you have gone forth in jihād in My way and to seek My good pleasure. You reveal to them the plan of the Prophet’s march out of love in your hearts, while you should know that I am aware of what you conceal and what you manifest, and whoever among you does that, he has surely lost the right path.S. M. Rizvi (Explanatory)

The Treaty of Ḥudaybiyyah between the Muslims and the Meccans was signed in 6 AH. However, the Meccans violated one of its clauses, and so the Prophet decided to march to Mecca. Ḥāṭib bin Abi Balta'ah was an immigrant who had left his family in Mecca. He was a sincere Muslim, but out of concern for his family, he sent a letter to the leaders of Mecca warning them of the Prophet’s plan to march toward them. Allāh informed the Prophet about it, so he sent some Muslims with ʿAlī bin Abī Ṭālib to intercept the woman carrying the letter. They succeeded in this mission and came back with the letter. The Prophet then asked Ḥāṭib about this letter: Why? He said that since his family did not join him in the faith and migration, he was afraid that the Meccans would harm them, so he decided to send them this message, hoping that they would reciprocate by not harming his family and that he was also sure of the Prophet’s victory and that this letter would not hurt his march. The Prophet forgave Ḥātib.
The Treaty of Ḥudaybiyyah between the Muslims and the Meccans was signed in 6 AH. However, the Meccans violated one of its clauses, and so the Prophet decided to march to Mecca. Ḥāṭib bin Abi Taltah was an immigrant who had left his family in Mecca. He was a sincere Muslim, but out of concern for his family, he sent a letter to the leaders of Mecca warning them of the Prophet’s plan to march toward them. Allāh informed the Prophet about it, so he sent some Muslims with ‘Ali bin Abī Tālib to intercept the woman carrying the letter. They succeeded in this mission and came back with the letter. The Prophet then asked Ḥāṭib about this letter: Why? He said that since his family did not join him in the faith and migration, he was afraid that the Meccans would harm them, so he decided to send them this message, hoping that they would reciprocate by not harming his family and that he was also sure of the Prophet’s victory and that this letter would not hurt his march. The Prophet forgave Ḥātib.

60:2

إِن يَثْقَفُوكُمْ يَكُونُوا۟ لَكُمْ أَعْدَآءًۭ وَيَبْسُطُوٓا۟ إِلَيْكُمْ أَيْدِيَهُمْ وَأَلْسِنَتَهُم بِٱلسُّوٓءِ وَوَدُّوا۟ لَوْ تَكْفُرُونَ ۝٢

If they overcome you on the battlefield, they will be your enemies and stretch their hands and their tongues towards you with evil, and they wish that you would disbelieve.S. M. Rizvi (Explanatory)

60:3

لَن تَنفَعَكُمْ أَرْحَامُكُمْ وَلَآ أَوْلَٰدُكُمْ ۚ يَوْمَ ٱلْقِيَٰمَةِ يَفْصِلُ بَيْنَكُمْ ۚ وَٱللَّهُ بِمَا تَعْمَلُونَ بَصِيرٌۭ ۝٣

Your relatives and your children for whom you revealed the Prophet’s plan to the enemies shall not avail you against your sin of betrayal on the Day of Resurrection: on that day, He (Allāh) will create a separation between you and them; and Allāh sees what you are doing.S. M. Rizvi (Explanatory)

60:4

قَدْ كَانَتْ لَكُمْ أُسْوَةٌ حَسَنَةٌۭ فِىٓ إِبْرَٰهِيمَ وَٱلَّذِينَ مَعَهُۥٓ إِذْ قَالُوا۟ لِقَوْمِهِمْ إِنَّا بُرَءَٰٓؤُا۟ مِنكُمْ وَمِمَّا تَعْبُدُونَ مِن دُونِ ٱللَّهِ كَفَرْنَا بِكُمْ وَبَدَا بَيْنَنَا وَبَيْنَكُمُ ٱلْعَدَٰوَةُ وَٱلْبَغْضَآءُ أَبَدًا حَتَّىٰ تُؤْمِنُوا۟ بِٱللَّهِ وَحْدَهُۥٓ إِلَّا قَوْلَ إِبْرَٰهِيمَ لِأَبِيهِ لَأَسْتَغْفِرَنَّ لَكَ وَمَآ أَمْلِكُ لَكَ مِنَ ٱللَّهِ مِن شَىْءٍۢ ۖ رَّبَّنَا عَلَيْكَ تَوَكَّلْنَا وَإِلَيْكَ أَنَبْنَا وَإِلَيْكَ ٱلْمَصِيرُ ۝٤

In this matter, certainly there is for you in Ibrāhīm and those who were with him an excellent exemplar when they said to their own people: “Indeed we actively disassociate from you and whatever you worship besides Allāh; we reject you and your idol-worshipping, and between us and you enmity and hatred has emerged in our hearts forever until you believe in Allāh alone.” He is an example except when Ibrāhīm said to his uncle, “I will certainly ask forgiveness for you as I don’t possess anything for you against Allāh.” “Our Lord! In You, we put our trust, and to You, we turn in repentance, and to You is the eventual destination.S. M. Rizvi (Explanatory)

So what about Ibrāhīm praying for his idol-worshipping uncle? That was an exceptional situation where he had promised his uncle to pray for him, but he disassociated himself once he realized his insolence.
The statement of Ibrāhīm and his followers in the earlier part of this verse continues:
See 9:114. Also see note under 6:74 for usage of the term “uncle” for “ab”.

60:5

رَبَّنَا لَا تَجْعَلْنَا فِتْنَةًۭ لِّلَّذِينَ كَفَرُوا۟ وَٱغْفِرْ لَنَا رَبَّنَآ ۖ إِنَّكَ أَنتَ ٱلْعَزِيزُ ٱلْحَكِيمُ ۝٥

Our Lord! Do not make us a source of trial for those who disbelieve, and forgive us, our Lord; You are the Mighty, the Wise.”S. M. Rizvi (Explanatory)

60:6

لَقَدْ كَانَ لَكُمْ فِيهِمْ أُسْوَةٌ حَسَنَةٌۭ لِّمَن كَانَ يَرْجُوا۟ ٱللَّهَ وَٱلْيَوْمَ ٱلَْٔاخِرَ ۚ وَمَن يَتَوَلَّ فَإِنَّ ٱللَّهَ هُوَ ٱلْغَنِىُّ ٱلْحَمِيدُ ۝٦

Certainly there is for you an excellent example in them; of course, for one who hopes for Allāh’s guidance in this world and His grace on the Last Day; and whoever turns his back from true faith, then surely Allãh is He Who is Free from need, the Praised.S. M. Rizvi (Explanatory)

60:7

۞ عَسَى ٱللَّهُ أَن يَجْعَلَ بَيْنَكُمْ وَبَيْنَ ٱلَّذِينَ عَادَيْتُم مِّنْهُم مَّوَدَّةًۭ ۚ وَٱللَّهُ قَدِيرٌۭ ۚ وَٱللَّهُ غَفُورٌۭ رَّحِيمٌۭ ۝٧

The command of repudiating friendship with the enemies is based on faith. It may be that Allāh will bring about friendship between you and those with whom Aadaytum minhum mawaddatan Allāh is Powerful, and at the same time, Allāḥ is Forgiving, Merciful.S. M. Rizvi (Explanatory)

60:8

لَّا يَنْهَىٰكُمُ ٱللَّهُ عَنِ ٱلَّذِينَ لَمْ يُقَٰتِلُوكُمْ فِى ٱلدِّينِ وَلَمْ يُخْرِجُوكُم مِّن دِيَٰرِكُمْ أَن تَبَرُّوهُمْ وَتُقْسِطُوٓا۟ إِلَيْهِمْ ۚ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ يُحِبُّ ٱلْمُقْسِطِينَ ۝٨

Muslims’ attitude towards non-Muslims: As for those non-Muslims who have not fought against you on account of your religion nor have they expelled you from your homes, Allāh does not forbid you from showing kindness to them and acting justly towards them; surely Allāh loves those who act justly.S. M. Rizvi (Explanatory)

60:9

إِنَّمَا يَنْهَىٰكُمُ ٱللَّهُ عَنِ ٱلَّذِينَ قَٰتَلُوكُمْ فِى ٱلدِّينِ وَأَخْرَجُوكُم مِّن دِيَٰرِكُمْ وَظَٰهَرُوا۟ عَلَىٰٓ إِخْرَاجِكُمْ أَن تَوَلَّوْهُمْ ۚ وَمَن يَتَوَلَّهُمْ فَأُو۟لَٰٓئِكَ هُمُ ٱلظَّٰلِمُونَ ۝٩

It is only regarding those non-Muslims who have fought against you on account of your religion and expelled you from your homes and supported others in expelling you that Allāh forbids you to take them as friends, and whoever takes them as friends, then they are the unjust ones.S. M. Rizvi (Explanatory)

Muslim Women Refugees

60:10

يَٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلَّذِينَ ءَامَنُوٓا۟ إِذَا جَآءَكُمُ ٱلْمُؤْمِنَٰتُ مُهَٰجِرَٰتٍۢ فَٱمْتَحِنُوهُنَّ ۖ ٱللَّهُ أَعْلَمُ بِإِيمَٰنِهِنَّ ۖ فَإِنْ عَلِمْتُمُوهُنَّ مُؤْمِنَٰتٍۢ فَلَا تَرْجِعُوهُنَّ إِلَى ٱلْكُفَّارِ ۖ لَا هُنَّ حِلٌّۭ لَّهُمْ وَلَا هُمْ يَحِلُّونَ لَهُنَّ ۖ وَءَاتُوهُم مَّآ أَنفَقُوا۟ ۚ وَلَا جُنَاحَ عَلَيْكُمْ أَن تَنكِحُوهُنَّ إِذَآ ءَاتَيْتُمُوهُنَّ أُجُورَهُنَّ ۚ وَلَا تُمْسِكُوا۟ بِعِصَمِ ٱلْكَوَافِرِ وَسَْٔلُوا۟ مَآ أَنفَقْتُمْ وَلْيَسَْٔلُوا۟ مَآ أَنفَقُوا۟ ۚ ذَٰلِكُمْ حُكْمُ ٱللَّهِ ۖ يَحْكُمُ بَيْنَكُمْ ۚ وَٱللَّهُ عَلِيمٌ حَكِيمٌۭ ۝١٠

O you who believe! When believing women come to you as immigrants, then test them for their sincerity; of course, Allāh knows best the state of their faith. So if you ascertain them to be believing women, then do not turn them back to the unbelievers—after faith, neither these Muslim women are lawful to those non-Muslim men, nor are those men lawful to these women. However, give to the non-Muslim husbands what they have spent as dowry. There shall be no sin upon you to marry them when you have given them their dowries. Do not hold on to marriage ties with non- Muslim wives. And when they join their non- Muslim family, you ask them for what you have spent as mahr and let them ask for what they have spent as dowry on their wives who have joined the Muslim community. This is the judgement of Allāh that He judges between you on the basis of justice; verily, Allāh is Knowing, Wise.S. M. Rizvi (Explanatory)

One of the Ḥudaybiyyah treaty's term was that any Muslim who migrates from Mecca would be sent back, but if a Muslim of Medina decides to return to Mecca, he would not be sent back to Medina. A woman from Mecca came to the Prophet and declared that she had accepted Islam and would not return to her husband who was still a polytheist. The husband came to the Prophet and tried to get his wife back to Mecca based on the treaty. The Prophet replied that the clause of returning a Muslim immigrant only applied to men and not to women.

60:11

وَإِن فَاتَكُمْ شَىْءٌۭ مِّنْ أَزْوَٰجِكُمْ إِلَى ٱلْكُفَّارِ فَعَاقَبْتُمْ فََٔاتُوا۟ ٱلَّذِينَ ذَهَبَتْ أَزْوَٰجُهُم مِّثْلَ مَآ أَنفَقُوا۟ ۚ وَٱتَّقُوا۟ ٱللَّهَ ٱلَّذِىٓ أَنتُم بِهِۦ مُؤْمِنُونَ ۝١١

If anything of the dowry of your non- Muslim wives was ‘lost’ to the unbelievers (since they did not pay you back), and then circumstances turn in your favour (e.g., in jihad), then give to those whose wives went away (and their families did not pay) the like of what they spent in their dowry before you distribute the spoils. However, in this retaliation, fear displeasing Allāh in whom you believe.S. M. Rizvi (Explanatory)

60:12

يَٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلنَّبِىُّ إِذَا جَآءَكَ ٱلْمُؤْمِنَٰتُ يُبَايِعْنَكَ عَلَىٰٓ أَن لَّا يُشْرِكْنَ بِٱللَّهِ شَئًْۭا وَلَا يَسْرِقْنَ وَلَا يَزْنِينَ وَلَا يَقْتُلْنَ أَوْلَٰدَهُنَّ وَلَا يَأْتِينَ بِبُهْتَٰنٍۢ يَفْتَرِينَهُۥ بَيْنَ أَيْدِيهِنَّ وَأَرْجُلِهِنَّ وَلَا يَعْصِينَكَ فِى مَعْرُوفٍۢ ۙ فَبَايِعْهُنَّ وَٱسْتَغْفِرْ لَهُنَّ ٱللَّهَ ۖ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ غَفُورٌۭ رَّحِيمٌۭ ۝١٢

O the Prophet! When the believing women come to you to pledge allegiance to you, then they should do so on the terms that they shall not associate anything with Allāh, that they shall not steal (especially from their husbands), neither commit adultery, nor kill their children or come up with an accusation that they have forged in front of themselves by falsely attributing the child to the husband, nor disobey you in what is right—then accept their allegiance and pray to Allāh to forgive them. Indeed Allāh is the Forgiving, the Merciful.S. M. Rizvi (Explanatory)

In the conquest of Mecca, after the men pledged allegiance to the Prophet, the women also came:

60:13

يَٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلَّذِينَ ءَامَنُوا۟ لَا تَتَوَلَّوْا۟ قَوْمًا غَضِبَ ٱللَّهُ عَلَيْهِمْ قَدْ يَئِسُوا۟ مِنَ ٱلَْٔاخِرَةِ كَمَا يَئِسَ ٱلْكُفَّارُ مِنْ أَصْحَٰبِ ٱلْقُبُورِ ۝١٣

O you who believe! Do not befriend the people against whom Allāh is wrathful like the hypocrites and the Jews of Medina: they have indeed despaired of the reward of the Hereafter just as the unbelievers who are the inhabitants of the graves have despaired.S. M. Rizvi (Explanatory)